QUOTE(the fieryangel @ Mon 23rd June 2008, 1:08pm)
The issue is control over the article and hence control over the term. How does one define the terms "twink"? Is the term negative or positive? To whom? And how does this reflect NPOV?
My short answer is that it doesn't: it is, once again, the desire of a certain minority group (and here we are, once again, with sexual minorities dictating their own definitions to terms used within their subcultures) to control the name by which they identify.
I don't see the problem with authorities on a subject defining their own terms in general. An accepted, respected nuclear scientist should have more weight in defining terms related to nuclear physics; a professional puppeteer working for Jim Henson Company should have more weight in defining puppeteering terms; a term used almost exclusively by one culture should also have more weight and authority in defining it's meaning. It's got nothing to do with sex, sexual orientation, or even empowerment. It's common sense. If all the women on earth began calling it the Vajayjay in honor of Oprah, or whoever called it that first (I just heard the term on McHale's The Soup and claim ignorance past that), then by God, its a Vajayjay eventually. Same as if us straights had a lingo subculture, the gays shouldn't be dictating to us what those phrases mean, who am I as a straight to do that to them?
Ditto for race, as alluded to with the Redskins example. I was born in a section of the Transylvanian mountains. If some Navajo started going off that all Romanians from that region were all bloodsucking facists that sided with the Nazis, and I shouldn't be offended, and I should accept that, I'd be thinking, "Who the fuck are you to tell me what I am?" The exact same as I'm not entitled to tell some Navajo that they're half-naked dancers who shouldn't be offended that the Dutch or whoever kicked their asses. Real life doesn't work that way.
QUOTE(the fieryangel @ Mon 23rd June 2008, 1:08pm)
Perfectly understandable, yes...but encyclopaedic? NPOV? And couldn't this fall into the category of "unwarranted weight" or whatever it is that you call it?
What weight issues are there involving a very common slang term for one of the larger minority groups? You lost me there. Are you saying if members of that group were given more weight in that article then it's unbalanced? If so, lets see how far we get inserting the Aryan Nation POV into the [[Black people]] article or the [[Fred Phelps]] POV into the [[Gay]] article.
QUOTE(the fieryangel @ Mon 23rd June 2008, 1:08pm)
The problem with the article is that....their definition of the term is not clear. It could be, according to the
discussion of this block on ANI, that "twink" refers to "anyone who gay men find attractive, regardless of their sexual orientation" and that this should be seen as a "compliment".
That thread is comically absurd. And 95% of it is about putting some random guy's picture in the article, which WAS a BLP violation.
QUOTE(the fieryangel @ Mon 23rd June 2008, 1:08pm)
Now, even the straightest man in World who is completely comfortable with his own sexuality is not going to see being framed as "attractive to homosexual men" in terms as a compliment. I would guess that the range of reactions would vary from "neutral" to "annoyed", with probably more "annoyed" responses than "neutral" ones.
I'm about as straight as they come, or as one ex called me "American farm boy stock by way of Europe" for my "tastes". The one time a gay guy told ever told me outright that I was cute (his wording was a BIT more impolite) I was like, "Whoa. Cool." I took it as a compliment, but I'm probably atypical in that. I'd agree that most straight guys would either take it totally neutral if not get bugged out by it to some degree, either great or small.
QUOTE(the fieryangel @ Mon 23rd June 2008, 1:08pm)
The problem is that this is not the generally accepted definition of the term, which refers specifically to the definition to which you are referring (a skinny, young, hairless gay man).
All that needs to happen is someone with time and the inclination needs to dig around for sourcing to just put the article in it's place, and then it's done with. How many times have we seen petty edit wars just stop when someone finally says, "Oh fine, here's a dozen sources that says I'm right"? Most times thats the end.
QUOTE(the fieryangel @ Mon 23rd June 2008, 1:08pm)
Now, why the spin?
Power politics, like you said.