this is really an update on a couple of previous threads, so if mods are so inclined, and reckon it's helpful - do go ahead and merge or whatever magic it is you guys do!
Having taken Lar's (and heaps of other people's) advice that my initial proposal about sexual content on wikimedia commons was the wrong way to go about things, I made what I thought were fairly modest (geddit) proposals at existing policy pages - basically saying that there are some contexts where wikimedia should insist on having the subject's permission before hosting / publishing / service providing / whatever it is commons does the pic.
One context I suggested is public nudity at a beach - that folk might understandably have the expectation that their image will not be taken, and made available online. Another context I feel permission of the subject is desirable (and should be required by policy) is stuff that might loosely be considered sexual - things like 'visible panty line' or upskirt shots....
That latter deletion discussion is kinda interesting because Jimbo popped in, probably having had his interest tweaked on his talk page.... anyone who implies that Jimbo (or I) have smutty intentions in browsing hundreds and hundreds of bums and bits is behaving outrageously.
Commons tends to polarise on issues like this, with the knock on effect in my view of generally stymie-ing any productive conversation - the upshot (and upskirt!) currently being that the site overall continues in my view to be irresponsible - it's just not cool to host a bunch of pic.s of naked women taken without their permission on the beach.
If I can ever work out how to include images here, I'll pull a Daily Mirror and include shocking and disgusting photos on pages 2, 3, 7, 9, 12, 16, 18, 19.... .... ....... ;-)