QUOTE(KevinOKeeffe @ Sun 2nd August 2009, 3:43am)
My feelings with regard to individual whores seldom rises to the intensity of hatred. I seldom know enough about them to know whether pity, aloof disdain, or frothing hatred is the correct response; I'm sure all three have their place in various individual instances. I do hate the idea of someone becoming a whore, however. Even in instances where it makes sense for them to do so ie., in order to avoid starvation in a war zone, say, its still very regrettable that such things occur.
Nobody responded to my suggestion to examine the case of Dulcinea, the fictional heroine of
Don Quixote. Her character is an iconic example of the dilemma which Kevin contemplates above.
But perhaps a more fascinating case would be Sabina Spielrein, a real person whose story is even more interesting than that of the fictional Dulcinea.
When Carl Jung was just starting his career under the supervision of Eugen Bleuler, Spielrein was his first patient. She was a teenager whom he diagnosed and treated for hysteria. Spielrein stayed on at the clinic and became Jung's assistant and lover. Their dalliance became a scandal that came to the attention of both Freud and Bleuler, leading to the dismissal of Jung from his position at Bleuler's clinic.
Spielrein stayed on to study under Bleuler and then launched her own career in psychotherapy. Her first client was Jean Piaget, with whom she subsequently collaborated and published pathbreaking papers on Autism.
The diagnosis of Autism originated when Bleuler and Freud first discussed such cases. Bleuler proposed to call the diagnosis "ipsism". Freud proposed calling it "autoerotism". Bleuler decided to elide the express reference to erotic self-stimulation, and shortened the name to autism. That was around 1912, when Spielrein was still studying under Bleuler after her dalliance with Jung.
So, what does this have to do with sex for sale?
Think about it. Where is one's source of sexual gratification? Erotic self-stimulation? From a "hired-hand"? From a lover? From a spouse? From printed or online pornography or japornimation?
The prostitute with a heart of gold is something of a literary cliche. Having a "heart of gold" is a synonym for having empathy for others. Autism, on the other hand, is a diagnosis in which the absence of empathy is a defining characteristic. So how does one convey empathy to someone who is 1) desperately lacking in sources of sexual gratification and 2) very much in need of exemplars in empathy?
Enter the role of the sex worker. Is a sex worker a despicable harlot or a praiseworthy therapist?
Deciding whether to curse with contempt or praise with respect is clearly a significant emotional choice.
But emotional choices are often ill-informed choices.
If you study the biography of Sabina Speilrein, you might come away with a more mature perspective on a subtle and complex issue — one that perplexed and confounded Freud, Jung, Bleuler, and Piaget.
By the way, her surname means "fair play".
It's ironic, because Spielrein's life was anything but fair.