Bearing Accurate WitnessQUOTE(GlassBeadGame @ Wed 22nd April 2009, 7:36am)
QUOTE(Moulton @ Tue 21st April 2009, 12:59pm)
While a single historical anecdote does not suffice to establish a new paradigm that overthrows an old one, it does speak to GBG's question about whether I believe other methods are worth considering. I'll leave it as an exercise for the reader to decide if the gambit in that anecdote rises to GBG's notion of "help".
My sister sends me emails like this all the time, sometimes with pictures of kittens.
Does your sister listen to
This American Life on NPR?
Last week, Ira Glass reprised an episode entitled "
Mistakes Were Made" about remorse and apologies in the aftermath of "misadventures." The bulk of the hour featured an atrocious and heartbreaking tragedy involving cyrogenics. You can skip that part. But the 8-minute opening segment, which sets the stage for the show's theme, recalled one of the oldest and most iconic of anecdotes on the subject of inducing remorse.
If you bring up the audio archive to listen to the show's opening prologue, you might also want to skip ahead to the last 6 minutes to listen to the closing epilogue, featuring remarkable parodies of the classic apology poem, "This Is Just To Say" by William Carlos Williams. The closing musical button, "Cold As Ice" is poignantly relevant, too.
QUOTE(GlassBeadGame @ Wed 22nd April 2009, 7:36am)
But I suppose we might consider something other than the efficacy of prayer at work. While you and your friends were busy praying you probably weren't doing certain other things, like acting really pissed off. Maybe the departure from the expected had something to do with behavior change? I doubt that this would happen literally "overnight" but then the story in the retelling, even by the honest, might compress time a bit.
The Bible is full of advice like this:
QUOTE(Proverbs 25:21-22)
If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head,
and the LORD will reward you.
This is quoted by the very practical minded Paul in Romans 12:19-21:
QUOTE(Romans 12:19-21)
Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written
It is mine to avenge; I will repay, says the Lord.
On the contrary
If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
This brings home the psychological impact of meeting evil with kindness. It has nothing at all to do with prayer.
One of the features of public prayer (as opposed to private meditation) is that it telegraphs the fact that observers are aware of an issue and are bearing witness to it.
The act of bearing witness (even silent witness) is a very powerful act. Individuals or groups can bear witness via prayer vigils or by other means. There is copious evidence that when others do nothing more than bear witness, it suffices to change the behavior of those being witnessed.